I’ve had a tougher recovery with my last round and not as much drive to post or write. However, this is from my journal on Round 5.
Who knew when I moved to Utah in the 3rd grade that I would meet the people who 28 years would not only become my best friends but my village as well.
I met my friend, Erin, in the 3rd grade. We’ve been friends through the easy and tough times; moving, careers, pregnancies, parenthood, and roller derby! When I told her about Lola, her reaction was,”Ok. That sucks but you can do this. I will be there, too.” And she has from listening to me complain to taking my son for a few hours on Saturdays. I knew she was the right one to be in my corner for Round 5!
Typical to rest of my treatment days, I followed my nutty routine and ate my scrambled eggs. Derek and I headed to the hospital just as the nerves settled in and the Lorazpram hasn’t. Derek talks to me about random things and keeps me calm so I don’t completely break down. We arrive and meet with my oncologist who is now ready to start talking about the next step, surgery. I hear bits and pieces but I get hung up on a new fear…the lengthy recovery from two major surgeries and 5 weeks of radiation. I had pushed this aside to focus on making it through chemo and now it is becoming a very near reality. I thanked God that Derek was with me and could explain everything to me again when I was ready to really listen and make some decisions.
Erin joined us a short way through treatment bouncing in with her great smile and chatty self. Not bothered by the somber atmosphere, she settled in for some needed conversation and terribly unhealthy snacks. Treatment days are the last day that I have any taste for about a week. So, I treat them as a day to eat whatever junk food I can enjoy…could be why I got a little sick to my stomach this time! The treatment seemed to drag as the nurses were extremely busy trying to attend to the very full room. Just as I was getting cranky, Erin jumped into the chair and took a few photos. We laughed and gossiped and before I knew it, we were walking out and heading to one of our favorite spots, Meditrina, for tappas.
In roller derby, if you’re a blocker, you skate in a pack, close, tight, and strong. If you’re the jammer, you count on your team to protect, guide, and get you through the opposing pack to score without being harmed. I was always a blocker…these past few months, my team have been my blockers and it feels good to “jam” through to a win. One more round, Lola. My pack is too strong to let you through. Thanks Cruel Intentions for having my back today and for the last 28 years.